Monday, August 4, 2008
Laptop or PC? The war of techies begins...
Friday, July 11, 2008
Internet & Library. Which enhances a brigther student?
Monday, July 7, 2008
Old and New? Old or New...
However, knowing them more is still a good way or plan so that you can have more possessions especially those you treasure a lot. They will add up your collection in the "old" closet and soon be counted in as "old" ones, too, and another set of new things comes in again. In other words, this just goes on a cycle. And in this cycle, it is all up to you if you will love and collect the new stuffs and friends and keep and cherish the old stuffs.
Childhood and Adolescence. *Spelling the Difference*
Adolescence - it is the stage of big leap towards maturity. However, if we do not use this in the best way, we could not achieve our goals in life. I believe, that life truly begins at teenage years. This is the time for us to show up, come out from our shells and finally tell the world what we got. And now, here i am, absorbing all the homilies and straightforward expectations of my family. I couldn't believe that i've hurdle all the pain, the joy, and the hardships of being a person. Empirically, there is really a big difference from my childhood and adolescence. In my childhood years, I could say that, I am really immature both physically and emotionally. But now, I proudly say that I have excel so much in gaining friends, as well as how to deal with the life's uncertainties. Adolescence is the best ladder for me, because here, I really found the secret of winning friends. Specifically, our group was built and the real essence of friendship cling to my vocabulary.
What Lies Beneath??
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Teen Chill - Take It or Leave It. :]
TEEN CHiLL -- take it or leave it?
We'll sure you would want to answer that. :))
Stage of Confusion. :]
Being a teenager brings a fact of total doubt due to the fascinating new world that has entered. It means a lot of options to choose about in just one certain thing wherein he/she needs to know what is truly right from wrong. As young adults, teens prefer to believe in their own views and pretends to know everything even if they don't. Although, it enhances their character of self-reliance, this might still lead to confuse themselves from the conformed truth to their opinion where they depend on. They even try to protect the knowledge they have stored in mind and fight for it even if they're going the wrong way already. Almost every teen experienced this kind of mentality. But despite all of this, many try to understand both ways and correct themselves gradually.
Curiosity
One of the characteristics of a teenager is being curious. This is normal; boys and girls go through that curiosity phase. Curiosity booze out seeking for thrill, influence, relaxation and getting away from problems. They become more adventurous. They always look or even experiment on something they really don’t know. Nowadays, teens are very brave to try something new without thinking the consequences. Because of this, they get involve into vices, drugs, indecent fashion or even premarital sex. Some may behave like this just for popularity. Others are just because of influence. But most of them cannot escape from the situation. They become addicted and ruin their future. In just one try, it destroys what lies ahead for you.
Adolescents are prone to make decisions and actions without thinking the possible consequences. Responsibility of parents to provide counseling, give unconditional love and acceptance are very much needed in this period. Proper guidance and prayer from above may keep the teens from temptations.
Influence
" We are in the bloom of youth", as they say, meaning, we mostly think that whatever ideas that come from others are good. But how really?
We are only a pint compared to the multitude number of teenagers that inhibit globally. As a part of this clan, we too, should be aware of the things that come and may end.
Peer pressure -- that became a reality over us, because we are really "influenced"by the kind friends we are close associating with. What's funny and sad to note, is that, most of the things that we get from othes are seemingly good, but actually, is a demonstrator of something that wrecks something. I am talking about the trends- most especially the things that we do as leisure. Striking one, is about drug addiction. Using this for leisure is definitely no good. As we all know, we are being raised by our parents to get good education and later become good heads of our own families. Wouldn't it be disappointing on our parents' part if we would use our chances in in our own risk? I'm sure it definitely is.
We know that teenage years is a time of feeding ourselves with the things that'll prepare us towards our future.
Fortunately, it is not all the time that the word "influence" refer to bad stuffs.
With all hearts, we do, indeed hope that we would choose what's best for the many. :))
Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is usually one of those mentality that can lead a teen to be rebellious. Why? Well, let's just say being pressured means a lot of sadness and disappointment most of the time, especially if it means abrupt decision-making and often, it even doesn't go your way. That's a tough problem, right? Teens end up crying and carrying additional burdens since what they will do doesn't compliment their love at work. Some may even have nervous breakdown or even commit suicidal attempt.
Lovelife
To be in love and be loved is the sweetest thing in this humanity. What if it will happen to teens that are not mature enough to distinguish between love and intimacy? Would it succeed? Nowadays, most young people take the definition of love as what they want it to be. They have misconceptions of what is it. When they feel something unusual to its opposite sex, one is make believe that he/she is actually in love. But often times, it is not love at all. It might be a temporary feeling and will soon wear off. Not every teen that get into a relationship is looking for love. Some are those who only want sex, money or perhaps status. Teens get trap for what they think is love. So, more teenage relationships fail because of the obvious reason: lack of maturity and not knowing what true love is. It is all right for teens to have a relationship on this stage. But they should know their responsibilities as well as its limitations. The person should control his feelings. Not the feelings control the person. It is just accepting the fact that it involves a lot of thinking. Real love can wait. True love respects and honor. Genuine love lifts each other completely in their dreams. Prayers and parents advice is badly needed for teens to control their feelings. These will lead to face the truth which is reality. It is better to graduate first, have a job, then enter in a relationship and finally get happily settled. Every sacrifice is worth it. Good future waits for teens like this.
Teenage Pregnancy
Young people get involve to premarital sex. One tries out what it feels to be truly in love by merely sexual contact. Yes, God created our sexual desire. Thus, there is no reason to use it blindly. Indeed, it should be used, but in its proper time and place So, God intended sex for marriage couple.
Teenage pregnancy is considered a huge problem not only in our country but world wide. Statistics shows the main reason of teenage pregnancy is poverty, lack of guidance and out of curiosity. It increases the population rapidly, unemployment and so forth. Teens undergoing in this problem facing consequences not only emotional, mental but also physical risks on the life of the mother as it is to the child Early moms are prone of reproductive diseases since their organs are not mature enough to bear a child. Aside from that, adolescent mother experience emotional distress due to longing for acceptance, decision making and infant’s cognitive. The mother shows less closeness to the baby. Most likely. Adolescent father will force to work due to the big responsibility waits for them. Teenage parents experience anger and frustration for the unfulfilled dreams. Likewise, most of teenage marriages fail. Maybe, because of lack of responsibility, involvement, and commitment. Adolescent mother needs more information about child care and child development. Even how hard it, people around her is should give encouragement to pursue her life. The girl often takes the responsibility of the child. Yes, it is a mistake. But don’t ever think to abort the child. It is still a blessing.
Social Life :]
As teenagers, we most likely want to be with our friends most of the time. It's mainly because we want to have someone whom we can talk to with friends in our age, we usually understand each other easier than with elders or younger ones, especially with our bestfriends, whom we can tell just anything under the sun. But for some people, being in a crowd doesn't give them bliss, instead, they feel intimidated by others due to certain differences. Each and every one of us has diverse personalities and clearly, it only means that one can not please everyone or they are just playing hard-to-get. That's one uneasy thing about getting into social life during teenage years.